Thursday, December 12, 2019

Temper Tantrums and Other Problem Behavior

What is a Temper Tantrum?

A temper tantrum is an episode of extreme anger or frustration, characterized by screaming, yelling, crying, kicking, throwing self on the floor, and even head banging. Something I learned from Kids: The ManualTantrums usually happen between the ages of 1 and 4. They slowly start to decrease after that age unless the tantrums are not addressed. This why they are usually called the terrible 2’s or terrible 3’s.


Why do Temper Tantrums  happen?

  • Illness
  • Hunger
  • Being Overtired
  • Inconsistent discipline
  • Not enough attention-Neglect
  • Parents being over-protective
  • Parents constantly saying “NO!” or criticizing 
  • Sibling rivalry
  • Interference with play or problem solving
  • Uncomfortable situations, places, or people

Imagine you’re trying to figure something out like how to put your new bookcase together. You realize you put the wrong pieces together, after you have been working on it all day. You “lose it”, probably yell, throw the directions across the room? Cuss? Well that’s the adult version of a temper tantrum. Your toddler is faced with new challenges everyday. Sometimes he can handle them and sometimes he just “loses it”. And how we handle these tantrums is crucial, one wrong move and it could be a catastrophe! And continued wrong moves, you could have a complete terror child on your hands.

Other problematic behavior:

  • Arguments
  • Fighting (kicking, punching, biting)
  • Persistent whining
  • Not listening
  • Refusing to do chores

What can you do?

how to handle temper tantrums

Dana Obleman, creator of “The Sleep Sense Program” has come up with an awesome program for problem behavior. It’s called Kids: The Manual. It’s not only a book but also a video library and includes lots of valuable resources. In this manual you will learn:

  • Why most temper tantrums are actually caused by parents- and how one simple change can virtually eliminate tantrums from your home once and for all!
  • How parentsaccidentally put their children on the defensiveat the very beginning of the day… and the simple step to avoid it!
  • The unconscious communication mistakes that almost all parents make – but hardly ever recognize…
  • Secret weapons for making “transition times” a breeze(Getting ready for school and getting ready for bed can be temper tantrums waiting to happen)
  • How to get siblings to solve most of their disagreements –without needing your help at all!
  • Why you might NOT want to use time-outs for children under the age of 3. (And how to get any child to stay in a time-out without a fuss!)
  • The unexpected benefits of sibling rivalry. (Also, how to deal with fights between brothers and sisters without hurting anyone’s self-esteem.)
  • The foolproof way to get your child to actually enjoy doing his chores… that works almost every time!
  • The REAL reason why kids don’t listen – and the simple switch you can make to solve this problem… once and for all!
  • The critical difference between a “consequence” and a “punishment.” (Plus, how to let “natural consequences” teach your children right from wrong… without having to say a word!)

All kids are going to have temper tantrums, but there are so many things you can do to help minimize and prevent those tantrums, and there’s nothing wrong with getting a guide to help.

Here’s more information on Kids: The Manual

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